As I write this post, I don’t think it could have come at a more applicable time. To say this week has been busy is an understatement. I’ve managed to complete a project at work, finish off a gift for my boyfriend’s 30th (!) birthday, move to a new house, scramble to finish an assignment for school, and all before heading off for a holiday in Bali! Phew! I’m tired just thinking about it.

So with all that mayhem, you would think that I’d feel a sense of accomplishment for getting so much done this week. But the truth is, even though I stayed crazy busy, I wasn’t very productive. That sounds a little confusing, I know. If you’re busy, you should be getting more done and thus be more productive, right? But constantly working like a madwoman without a moment’s rest does not necessarily result in productivity. In fact, it can have the opposite effect.
Take my week, for example. Sure, it may sound like I got a hell of a lot done. But how many of those things did I get done well? The birthday gift miraculously came together at the last minute, but I’ll admit that my work project could have used a bit more focus and I definitely could have spent another couple hours on my school assignment. Moving house turned into more like stuffing everything in a room and I may or may not be allowed on my flight to Bali because I have no empty pages in my passport (fingers crossed!).
So if being busy doesn’t necessarily mean being productive, why do we end up jam-packing our days with shit to do?
Staying busy feels like we’re getting a lot done. At the end of a long day we feel like we deserve to kick back with a cold beer and a movie. But have you ever had those days where you felt like you were constantly doing something, but never getting anything done? How annoying is that? So what can we do to be less busy, but more productive? Here are some tips:
Focus on your priorities
Shortening your to-do list may feel like automatically giving up on being productive, but it actually helps you get more done. Tim Ferriss, the productivity guru, suggests choosing 2 to 3 high priority items to focus on each day. When you narrow your focus you keep yourself from getting sidetracked by trivial tasks. Even if that means you only get those three things done, you’ll feel more productive than getting 10 things halfway done. Prioritizing forces you to choose what is most important at the beginning of the day, giving you perspective throughout the day to avoid staying busy, just for the sake of it.
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Be realistic in your commitments
It may feel empowering to say “yes” to a bunch of projects and activities, but the stress of overcommitting will eventually catch up with you. Those who you’ve committed to will notice your work suffering. Spreading yourself too thin results in performing poorly in other aspects of your life. This can lead to problems in your career or with family and friends. Sometimes it’s unavoidable and you end up having a million things on your to-do list one week. Be honest with those you’ve committed to and see where you may have some extra time. Turning things in late is often better than turning them in half-assed.
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Take time off
Forcing yourself to be busy to the point of stressing yourself out is not only detrimental to your work, but your mental and physical health as well. Stress has been linked to health problems like heart disease and memory impairment — scary stuff! Even if you don’t feel stressed, staying busy round the clock forces you to neglect taking time for yourself. Think about the last time you pulled an all-nighter. How how much did you get done the next day? Missing out on sleep and exercise means your brain and your body aren’t working at full capacity. Taking a mid afternoon nap, a day off or even a vacation may feel selfish, but they’ll certainly help your productivity in the long run.
Try meditation
A lot of people (often those who have never tried meditation) tend to rule it out as something only head-scarf wearing hippies might do in a drum circle. Either that, or it just sounds downright boring. Why would I sit still for 10 minutes when I could be knocking something off my to do list?! But with apps like Headspace, meditation has started to enter the mainstream. And for good reason: it works. If you feel like you’re spending your days rushing around without getting anything done, try incorporating ten minutes of meditation into your routine in order to center your mind and put you in a more focused and productive state.
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This is so great! I have Headspace on my phone but I’ve yet to use it…you’re inspiring me to finally try it!
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I’ve never heard of Headspace before. Definitely going to have to look into it!
This post is exactly what I’ve been needing. As a recent college grad who has just entered into the working world, the line between “busy” and “productive” is sometimes blurry. Narrowing down on my to-do list helps and so does meditating. I’ve been using Calm (calm.com) and Do Nothing For 2 Minutes (donothingfor2minutes.com) when I need to take a beat and meditate. Definitely going have to check out Headspace and see how it compares!
Thanks for this one. xoxo
All so true! I can be so busy all day, without actually accomplishing anything. I get distracted to easily, but I’m working on it (when I’m not distracted 😉 )
Great points! It seems like it’s also “cool” to stay busy and complain about it a lot, because it makes people feel important. But you are so right when you said it isn’t always productive to stay in motion all the time. My favorite suggestion of yours is to focus on top priorities. And I also like to make time for fun during the day to mix things up and give my brain a rest. It helps my creativity and productivity so much!
Happy Summer!
xx Lane
This is so perfect!! I currently work in Japan teaching English and it’s a very unproductive lifestyle. Most of my time is spent sitting at my desk doing nothing (or in this case reading blog posts) that I usually just feel very unfulfilled. Thankfully I am leaving this job and going back to America shortly, so I’ll hopefully get that productive buzz I love. I felt happier donating three bags of clothes I lugged seven blocks yesterday than I have felt at work all month, because I actually feel like I am making positive steps towards the life I want by getting rid of the clothes I don’t need so it’s easier to move!
Nothing is worse than busying yourself because you have nothing else to do. If I don’t have work to do why am I wasting my time here?
I absolutely LOVE this post. I’ve talked about this a lot on my blog. I think a ‘glorification of busy’ has occurred where people where it like a badge of honor. Which is so strange right? How has busy suddenly come to equate to ‘I am obviously accomplishing great things’ when most of the time being busy is just a result of poor planning and execution like you mentioned. You’re remedies and tips are absolutely awesome! Tim Ferriss is awesome. and I always right down the top three things I need to accomplish or I find myself re-organizing my Pinterests boards mid-day… (NOT productive) haha ;D
xx
Lauren Jade
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When you have so much going on, it can be a bit difficult to discern between a busy schedule and a productive one. This post was spot-on in illustrating the fact that people often mistake “doing a lot of things” for “getting a lot done.”
Great post – very helpful and informative!
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I like to make to-do lists for each day.
It is clear to see what I need to do in order to make everything works.
I do schedule day-off! That’s the time I go shopping, enjoying my hobbies, or simply not doing any thing!
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Great post! I definitely think it’s important to know the difference between busy and productive. Love these tips as well!
Rae | Love from Berlin
I agree with you on all of this. I’m the same, when I’m flat out doing things, if I step back I discover I have really got hardly anything done at all and it’s so frustrating. Thanks for the tips.
Amber
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Yes, yes, yes, 1000x yes! This is one of my biggest frustrations – I see so many people who are constantly professing how insanely busy they are, yet they spend a good few hours a day posting memes on Facebook. It’s all about using your time wisely and knowing that filling your day with more and more “stuff” isn’t necessarily a good thing if it all amounts to wasted time and more self-created stress.
A N A S T A S I A A M O U R . C O M
great post
Thank you for the great tips 🙂 I totally agree with focusing on your priorities. Sometimes I spend too much time on things that aren’t that important haha.. need to fix that habit ahh.
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These are great! We just moved, too, so I’m been trying to be really realistic about my priorities and commitments. It’s hard because I like to say yes to everything, but it’s been so important for my sanity!
This list is perfect. I’m so guilty of over committing myself. I’m very involved on campus, and I have a hard time saying no. I’ve gotten a lot better this year though – I don’t have classes on Tuesdays or Thursdays! While I enjoy having a busy schedule, it’s not worth it if I don’t get anything done. This post is such an important reminder.
I’m a meditator and mindfulness student. Also using headspace and the free guided meditation from marc.ucla.edu So agree that resetting with a meditation (or even a few belly breaths) is a great way to re-center. =)
I so love this! I wish I’d had this to refer to earlier, actually…. I’ve committed myself to way too much recently and am so insanely stressed. Fab post! <3
good point
great advice
Love this! Already downloaded the Headspace app 😉
Awesome! That’s a great one. 🙂
Your writing and advice definitely can be used by this 57 year-old. My answer for keeping myself on task: Keep a To-Do List and checking off each thing I’ve accomplished. I will schedule 2-3 things a day to knock out! Great Advice!!
Hey Maria, that’s so awesome! Thanks for your comment 🙂
I am obsessed with this topic. I really feel like even though it can be intuitive, it helps so much to have it laid out in a thoughtful, descriptive way. For me, reading Deep Work was a huge revelation – life changing. It was so eye opening and I am using a lot of the strategies in it to keep myself on track and banish the busyness. Of course the irony is that I had just about gotten off social media – the world’s greatest time such… but then I started a blog. So I guess that’s not going to happen!
Haha welcome back to social media! it is an essential tool for bloggers but there are tools and systems you can take advantage of to be less “busy” 🙂
Check out this post for more info about that: https://melyssagriffin.com/business-systems/
Good luck!