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How to Choose the Right Sofa for Your Home

Melyssa Griffin

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I recently moved to LA and was faced with one of those maybe-this-means-I’m-an-adult moments when I realized I needed more furniture to fill my larger space. Specifically, I didn’t own a sofa, and my bare living room was waving its arms at me for attention. This was my first time ordering a sofa of my own, and like any good millennial, I spent hours (days?!), poring over websites to find one that was the best fit for me. The quest was worth it, my friends, and I now have that sweet little lady up there that perfectly matches my style and needs. Want to get a new sofa, but don’t know where to start? I’ve got you covered.

Click through to read my tips for finding the best sofa for your home…and where I got mine!

1. Don’t skimp on this one.

If you’re trying to save money on your decor, I’d recommend doing it on a different piece of furniture. The sofa is, in many ways, the anchor of a living room. It’s where people congregate most and it’s usually what you’ll see first when you enter the room. Think of your sofa as an investment — something that you’ll have for many years. Knowing this, I weeded out super cheap sofas because I wasn’t sure how long they’d last.

2. Colorful or neutral?

Pinterest has surely turned me into a colorful couch nutcase. I LOVE all of the colorful sofas I see on the internet these days. I toiled with the idea of getting a bright pink or blue one for myself, but ultimately decided that a light grey worked best for my lifestyle and that I could bring color in in different ways.

Some things to consider: Are you DEAD SET on a specific color or on the fence? If you’re wishy washy about the color, that may mean that you want it because it’s trendy, not because you really adore it. Ask yourself, will I still love this color two years from now? It’s a lot easier to buy colorful throw pillows and replace those than it is to buy an entirely new couch. Also, consider the other decor in your living room and house. What would fit the theme you have most? Lastly, how will kids or pets affect your couchity couch? I have a corgi who sheds like NO.OTHER. His hairs are white, so I wanted a light-colored sofa to disguise his fur. They blend right in!

3. What kind of material is the sofa made of? 

This is especially important if there’s a chance someone might spill anything on your couch (side eyes to you, kiddos!). A velvet sofa may be tough to clean and could end up stained. My sofa is polyester, which was used because it’s the easiest material to clean…you know, in case my dog spills his morning coffee. 😉

4. Consider the size. 

This was one of the most important factors for me because I live in a one-bedroom apartment (read: small). A loveseat would have been too tiny, but standard-sized couches felt a bit too large for my space and sectionals were out of the question. Part of the reason I ended up getting my sofa from APT2B was because they offer “apartment-size sofas,” which are in between a long couch and a loveseat. Scooooreeeee! For your sofa, take size into consideration — you want something that will properly fill the space, but that won’t engulf it either.

5. How will you receive it?

This is minor, but I was not interested in picking up the sofa myself (my weak arms would be no match!). Delivery for sofas can also be pretty expensive. I was lucky that APT2B offers a free “white glove delivery service,” meaning they’ll deliver it to your house, set it up, and throw away any trash fo’ free. My delivery guy’s name was Jaime and he was pretty much the best, ever.

6. What kind of look are you going for?

Lastly, but perhaps most importantly — what kind of style do you want your living room to have? Personally, I LOVE mid-century modern furniture, so it was important that I found something in that style (I love my sofa’s low back and tapered legs!). Other styles might include something more modern, rustic, vintage, or traditional. Keep that in mind when selecting your sofa because if all of your decor screams “rustic!” but your couch screams “modern!” it might look a little off.

How did you select your sofa? Any tips for people who are on the hunt?

This post is in collaboration with one of my new favorite brands (for real), APT2B. Thank you for supporting the awesome brands that keep The Nectar Collective going. 

 

  1. rae says:

    All really great tips – I am actually looking to possibly replace my current sofa with a new one. I think one thing that I would also mention is to remember to sacrifice style for comfort in the end if this is a sofa you are going to use every night. I LOVE the way stylish old parlor style sofas look, but at the end of the day, I am happy to have an L-shaped sofa with a pull-out that converts to a bed not only for when guests stay but when me and the man are watching TV on the sofa in the evening. I can’t imagine feeling as comfortable on a parlor style sofa.

    Rae of love from berlin

  2. Meghan Hayes says:

    #1 for sure. We skimped on our first couch (well on our entire newly wed living room for that matter) and it lasted all of a year, so then we were just making due until we could save up. I will say don’t skimp on the couch, but don’t finance furniture either. It doesn’t hold it’s value like you want it to.

  3. Stacia says:

    What great suggestions! I do know that skimping on a couch is rarely worth it. I love the one you chose!

  4. Amy says:

    I went to the site and saw that your couch was made in the USA – hooray for that! I like their selection of lamps…thanks for sharing! And congrats on the new couch – I like it!

  5. These are good tips. I totally struggled over the sofa we bought several years ago. The struggle we had was that we were in an apartment and needed a sofa for that space, but don’t want to be in the apartment forever. So we invested in a piece for our current space that may not work in our future place (since we have no way of knowing what the future place will be like.) And now we’re still in that same apartment, longer than I had hoped, with the same sofa that I’m now tired of. Ah well, lol. Maybe I’ll pain the walls….;)
    http://www.everydaystilettos.com

  6. Love it! I was really picky when I purchased a sofa several years ago when I moved to WI. Now that I’m back in the expat realm I think of my sofa every time I look at the sofa that came with my furnished apartment (not so much my taste).

  7. Ahh man! That’s a tough situation. What kind of sofa would you get if you could have the one you wanted?

  8. Blu says:

    Hi! I got mine based on height (tall ceilings) depth (I wanted a comfy couch) and pet friendly! I wouldve loved a worn leather couch but my dog Monty likes to pretend he’s a DJ and scratch on the couch. Sigh.

  9. Mary says:

    Really good tips. I was struggling to replace my old couch with a new leather recliner one for months. I browsed the net for long and finally I got some excellent collection of leather recliner sofas and the funny part is that now I’m struggling to choose one from this!!!

  10. hsbn14612 says:

    I have got the recliner sofa from Surplus furniture and mattress warehouse. We got it for our media room 😀 and its just perfect

  11. Joseph Rand says:

    Neat post thanks for sharing this! Choosing a couch can be a tough choice due to the surroundings and trying to get the right match plus the comfort.

  12. Mary Jackson says:

    awesome post Melyssa! Thanks for sharing! I’m currently in the process of doing my living room up. I’ve spend hours searching for a sofa. However, I’ve gone down the route of having a custom made sofa from the team at http://tailormadesofas.co.uk/product-category/sofas. They may only serve Reading, however, I would strongly recommend that anybody struggling to find a sofa consider having one made. It can require a slightly higher budget, but you’ll get exactly what you and the family want. Keep the great articles coming! 🙂

  13. Clara says:

    Melyssa, First let me congratulate for this awesome post. You have made it very clear with clear and precise language how to get the perfect sofa. I will surely ask my readers and clients in http://bestsofaas.com to have a look at your article before buying a sofa.

    Just because you have asked in the end on how I select my sofa, let me add few points.
    1. Budget is the key player. Still if we’re good enough, it’s not that tough to get a great sofa with less money being spent.
    2. Leather sofa is the best for long term usage.
    3. Seating capacity should be considered. We should not buy something which is of no use at a later stage.

  14. adammaciejak says:

    It’s a great article! Thank you for sharing your tips and knowledge!:) I opened my business, and I will advise clients on interior design http://thehomeexpert.uk/

  15. Emily Grey says:

    What kind of sofa do you think is best for a small apartment with a dog?

    I like #3 with the recliners on this list http://www.sofareports.com/best-sofas-under-500/ except I’m looking for something that isn’t leather, and won’t fall apart fast with my dog.

    Any ideas?

  16. Bronte says:

    This is awesome, I never know how to pick the right furniture! It always ends up looking so mismatched at my house hahah. Thanks for the tips Mel! I’ve been using this article for home help lately, might help you for later blogs too https://www.electrodry.com.au/100-amazing-tips/

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