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How I Grew My Blog

Melyssa Griffin

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How I Grew My Blog. | Growing your blog is a lot of work, but I was able to figure things out and make my blog work for ME. Nowadays, my blog is my full-time business and using these strategies, I was able to grow it quickly. Want to grow your blog? Check out these nine things that made a difference for me.

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How I Grew My Blog. | Growing your blog is a lot of work, but I was able to figure things out and make my blog work for ME. Nowadays, my blog is my full-time business and using these strategies, I was able to grow it quickly.  Want to grow your blog? Check out these nine things that made a difference for me.

Recently I’ve been getting more and more emails from readers who are curious how I grew my blog fairly quickly. I decided to compile my answers to their questions in this post, along with some personal thoughts about blogging. It’s been awhile since I’ve shared blogging tips or stories, so I’m excited to get the ball rolling on this topic once again! 🙂

First, let me give you a little background information here. I started this blog in mid-February of 2013 — which means it’s almost nine months old! INSANITY! I could’ve had a kid by now! (Well, I guess I sort of do). Have I had blogs before? Yes! I’ve had a variety of blogs since I was in high school. But it wasn’t until this year that I found out blogging was a “thing.” Yes, a thing. I used to think that “having a blog” meant that you had a Xanga where you talked about your problems. I really didn’t know that there was such a humongous network of bloggers out there or that you could earn money from blogging! Discovering this mystical wonderland has been eye-opening, and to put it eloquently — friggin’ awesome.

Since starting this blog in February, my traffic has almost doubled every month. Now, I have over 2,500+ subscribers and receive 100,000+ monthly pageviews. My blog also pays my rent and has steadily brought in more income each month. So how did I do it? And how can you do it, too? Let’s get down to business!

1. Everything I’m about to tell you is subjective. 

These are tips, meaning they come from my personal experiences with blogging over the past nine months. They are not the end-all gospel for blogging, though I suspect (and hope) you already knew that. Take what makes sense for you and chuck the rest.

2. I think this one is big: I NEVER hesitated to invest in my blog. 

As soon as I decided to start my blog, I went to town researching everything I would need, and I didn’t skimp on anything that seemed important, like a design framework, hosting for WordPress.org (I absolutely love Bluehost!), and a domain name. I continue to invest in my blog any time it seems appropriate. It was months before I saw a penny in return and I think people sometimes get hung up on this fact when it comes to blogging.

But seriously, what other hobbies of yours pay for themselves? My hobbies throughout my life have included things like tennis, photography, and writing, but I haven’t seen a dime from doing any of those things, yet I still did them anyways. If you want to grow your blog, my #1 tip is to convince yourself that your blog is already worthy of all the awesome crap you wish you could buy for it. Create the most professional, spitting-image-of-you, virtual hang out spot you can, and don’t be nervous about spending a few dollars to make it something you’re totally proud of (and no, I’m not rich…last year I only made $34k from teaching).

I can’t say you’ll earn it all back for certain, but I can say that if you treat something like it’s “not worth it yet,” then you’re stunting your own growth.

3. Blogging should be your part-time job. (But feel like a full time job).

I work on my blog constantly, and did so even when I had 80 followers and zero profit. I think one of the hardest truths about growing your blog is that it takes a LOT of time and energy. My blog grew relatively quickly, but for the amount of work I put into it over those nine months, I doubt anyone would say I just “got lucky.”

Think of it this way — if you wanted to be an all-star tennis player, you wouldn’t spend all of your time reading articles about how to play tennis and you wouldn’t sit around wondering how other people are better at playing tennis than you are. You’d get your butt to a court and practice your ass off. The same can be said for most goals in life.

4. Your actual blog is only one part of the equation. 

You want to grow your blog? Ahh so you must also want to keep up with Twitter/Facebook/Instagram, answer emails, promote your sponsors, write guest posts, plan your own editorial calendar, create newsletters, etc. Aside from making your blog awesome for your readers, you need to hustle all over the web. You are your blog, and over time people will associate you both as one and the same.

5. Do you love the components of blogging? 

I think this is an important question. To me, the biggest components of a blog (aside from networking), are writing, photography, and design. Each of these components interact together to formulate the brand and overall entity that you are selling to the world. Luckily for me, writing, photography, and graphic design have been my main squeezes since I was a practically a fetus — I love them!

In high school, I was the editor-in-chief of our yearbook — an activity that allowed me to execute each of those hobbies in one place. One of my friends from high school, Catherine, was on yearbook staff with me, too. Now, she runs a popular blog called Rabbit Food for My Bunny Teeth. Doesn’t it just make sense that if you love what goes into it, you’ll happily put in the loads of time it requires?

6. Build a brand, not a blog.

In other words, your blog should have consistency. This is something I feel like I’ve improved on the most over the past couple months, and I have seen it do wonders for my blog. I recommend picking three fonts, a color palette, and any shapes or graphics you want to use consistently.

Need some help? I even created a free, downloadable “Style Guide” so that you can nail down the personality of your blog (and stick to it!).

7. Do sponsorships well. 

I started offering sponsorships only two months after starting my blog. I don’t recommend that, because I think you need to have a grasp on blogging (and ya know, readers) before you’re ready to promote other blogs. BUT once you’ve started noticing your traffic grow and your readership increase a little, I definitely recommend having sponsorships and making them totally rock. 

Most of my sponsors are readers who like my blog and want to support it. They’re not just robots throwing their money at me. There’s a human connection involved, which is one of the reasons I love having sponsors and enjoy getting to interact with and promote them. I’ve talked in previous posts about the fact that networking is important to blogging, and networking with your sponsors is an excellent place to begin building relationships with other bloggers.

Related: How to Kick-Butt at Blog Sponsorships

8. Think big. 

Don’t limit what you think you can do with your blog based only on how many followers you have. Nobody is stopping you from implementing your creative ideas just because you “only” have 100 followers. I recommend trying to think in bigger terms and constantly expanding on what you are doing with your blog. This might be something as small as starting a series or a linkup (by the way, my Weekly Wishes linkup was one of my first “think big” type of projects) or it might be bigger, like creating an e-course or hosting a blogger meetup.

I’m also absolutely certain that without my blog, I would not have been able to quit my day job and pursue graphic design (I started offering graphic design services just a few months ago, through my blog). There are few limits to what you can do, and once you’ve networked a bit, SO MUCH becomes possible! Have fun with it and go for your crazy ideas! I bet there are people out there who will absolutely love them.

9. Lastly, why do you want to grow your blog? 

Or more importantly, why do you blog? Don’t lose sight of why you started your little corner of this mystical wonderland to begin with. Like I said above, growing your blog takes a shit ton of work. You’ve really got to love your blog if you want to expand it, because you’re going to be spending endless amounts of time thinking about it, brainstorming for it, and doing things related to it. As your blog grows, so does the work related to it. Keep your purpose in mind and decide for yourself if growing your blog will bring you endless joy or unwanted stress. Because if putting all that time into your blog doesn’t make you happy or fulfilled, then really, what’s the point?

Best of luck to anyone out there who wants to grow their blog! If you want one-on-one advice, I also offer blog coaching strategy sessions. I’d love to help!

If you have any questions, I’m happy to answer them in the comments! I’d also love to know — what are YOUR tips for growing your blog? I’d love to hear your perspective! Have a super day!! 🙂

  1. Thank you! Great post! I guess I need to get my a** to work! haha

  2. I think these are great tips/advice, and even though you say they’re subjective – I would totally take advice from you because I can see the work you put into your blog and you seem to have a good understanding about blogging, branding, and building a community. Bookmarking this page in my ‘blogger’ folder for future reference & inspiration on those days where I’m feeling a little lazy, and have to be reminded to work hard for what I want!! 🙂 Great morning read over coffee! Now I just wish I had more coffee….

  3. Love this post! Just like Zauni, I value the advice you give because I believe you’re truly meant to be a blogger and can see the hard work you put into this blog.
    Do you have any suggestions for those of us who love to write, but struggle with photography? I’ve recently learned of a few really awesome stock photography new letters that sends you pictures you’re free to use, but I just wondered if you have any suggestions?

    • Well gosh I am screen-shotting this and putting it into my sunshine folder. 🙂 I love this little ol’ blog, so I’m glad it shows. 🙂 And that’s a great question! I used to be really into photography, but haven’t had as much time/energy as of late to take pictures for posts, so I know what you mean. I also subscribe to that stock photography newsletter. Some other things I recommend: 1) Google “Flickr Creative Commons” and you can search through all the photos on Flickr that people have posted which explicitly state that you can use them, as long as you give them credit. You can even edit them with text, etc. I like how this blog (http://www.yesandyes.org/2013/11/life-has-big-plans-for-you.html) gives credit at the bottom of posts because it’s discrete. 2) I’ve never used this site but it has free stock photography: http://www.stockfreeimages.com/ 3) This site (http://unsplash.com/) is awesome because you can use their photos for anything without needing to give credit!

      Hope that helps a bit 🙂

  4. Thanks Melyssa for writing this post! I was actually wondering what fonts you’re using but it’s like you read my mind! From a reader point of view, yes, I think your blog design helps you get more traffic! I love the simple and neat look, and it keeps me coming back for more 🙂

  5. Lara Coleman says:

    I loved this post – I think it’s one of the very first blog advice posts I’ve read that isn’t just run of the mill stuff we’ve all heard before. I specifically loved #2. I’ve been waiting to purchase a domain name and some other blog things, but after reading this I might take the plunge. Thanks!!

  6. thank you Melissa! this is all such wonderful advice! I only started blogging shortly after you did and ive REALLY struggled with growth, especially when I see so many blogs that blow up really fast talk about growth like it just happens on its own. I really, REALLY love how open and honest you are about what you’ve ACTUALLY done to make all this happen, rather than just vaguley alluding to something going viral on Pinterest (which I’ve seen quite a few times). tip number 8, though. that just about blew my mind. I HAVE been treating my blog like a 100 follower blog (if that, even) and it never even occurred to me that if I ever want it to get bigger, I have to treat it like it already is a big deal, I can’t wait around for more followers before I start really branching out.

  7. Ashley says:

    this is a great post! Thanks for sharing these tips:)

  8. This was a wonderful post, Mel and I really loved hearing not only about how you grew your blog, but your opinions on blogging as well! I completely agree that it’s like a part-time job. I invest a lot of time and a lot of money (for my budget, at least) into blogging, but that’s only because I see my potential self-worth and it’s something I LOVE to do! Am I at the point that you’re at yet? Many other bloggers? No. Have I perfected everything about blogging or even the things I already SEE wrong with my little space on the web yet? Nope. Not even close, but as I change things little by little and PLAN for the future, I see improvement. And with that improvement- I’ve grown my community. Which has always been one of the most important factors to me! Thanks for sharing this 🙂

  9. Ah, I used to think blogging meant Xanga-expressed angst too. Good old high school days. I loved the design tips and the Headway mention – it looks really cool!

  10. Danica says:

    this is great advice! there are so many variables in blogging that sometimes it’s hard to narrow down what is most important. success is subjective, especially in blogging, but it’s always nice to know that other people like your blog too. you know, other than your parents (their opinions are definitely biased). 🙂

  11. Natalie Harris says:

    Thank you for sharing your words of wisdom Mel!!

    http://Www.Allthingsnataliechrista.Blogspot.Com

  12. Z K says:

    I love love loooooooove this post – such great advice!!! Especially the part about investing in your blog – I always am hesitant to “throw money” at my blog, but why not? I love photography, so I spent money on an expensive camera. Why not think to spend money on something I really love? I also love the “think big” ideas…I have so many that I’ve been “hoarding” until I have a bigger following. But I think I’ll start soon :]

    • Love love this comment, Z!! Photography was one of the main hobbies that popped in my head too, because it brought me a similar level of enjoyment/happiness that blogging does, yet I was cool with throwing down thousands of dollars on cameras, film, etc. I’m not sure why people don’t immediately think the same way about blogging, but I think it’s definitely helpful! I also think you should totally do your big ticket ideas! If you can build some things that get people excited, even a few people, then you can start getting the momentum you need to create bigger and bigger things! Good luck, girl! 🙂

      • Z K says:

        I completely agree – I guess it just didn’t occur to me that investing would ever “pay off,” but after only two or so months of monetizing, I’m already splitting even with passionfruit payments and (hopefully) can start making a profit soon.
        And I’m really excited to do some of them. My main goal is to start posting more in general (and I have posts queued up for every day this week!!! Eeeeee!!) and try doing really genuine blog-hops and linkups – your Weekly Wishes being one of them! So excited about all of this!

  13. Thanks so much for sharing this post. Sometimes I get frustrated with the amount of work I put into my blog and the little return that I get for all of that work, but you’re so right when you say that I need to remember why I even started my blog in the first place rather than focusing on the number of followers I have and other minuscule things. Thanks for your words of wisdom. I’ll probably be turning to this post again in the future when I need reminding!

  14. Rachael @ Pretty in Pink says:

    Great advice! I agree completely and really enjoyed hearing your advice on this topic!

  15. toni d. says:

    Exactly what I’ve been looking for. Hooray! Thank you so much for sharing your tips Melyssa. You’re such a rockstar. =) Can’t wait to work with you next year!

    If you ever write an in depth e-book on this, which I so reckon you should after a while, I’m buying it and making it my bible. 😉

  16. PulpSushi says:

    I have read a lot of “blog improvement” posts but this may have been the most thorough and articulated one yet. Thanks so much for putting this together and congratulations on your success!

  17. Elle says:

    Of all posts I’ve read on this topic, this one if my favorite! Thank you for sharing!

  18. Ginny says:

    I love this! I really love your new design – and its amazing what that can do! I would love a post on your favorite plugins – if you ever feel so inclined 🙂

  19. Sky Fisher says:

    Thanks for this post! I think putting money into your blog is definitely a huge component. I know that if I had the money to invest in a proper design, I would definitely be able to grow my blog faster. It’s on my list of things to do ASAP but I’m not quite there yet.

  20. Stacia says:

    This is incredibly helpful, challenging, and encouraging. Thank you so much!

  21. Great post Melissa! I can’t believe you only started blogging in February – your blog is SO TOGETHER. I love it.

    Also, I had never thought of blogging this way: “But seriously, what other hobbies of yours pay for themselves? My hobbies throughout my life have included things like tennis, photography, and writing, but I haven’t seen a dime from doing any of these things, yet I still did them anyways.”

    BUT THAT IS SO PERFECT. DUH. Man. You’re a wise one.

  22. Jamie Almeida says:

    Very encouraging! I definitely needed this today!

  23. josie c. says:

    Wow, Melyssa, you have definitely inspired me to take my blog to the next level. If I didn’t have grad school sucking up the majority of my time, I would dive right into some of your tips. What I like the most about what you said was that growing your blog requires time and energy. This is so true for everything. You are such an inspiration! Thanks 🙂

    • Thanks Josie! I’m so glad you liked this. 🙂 I agree — having things like grad school or a full-time job can make it hard to put in the time and energy that a blog needs in order to grow. Baby steps and you got this! 🙂

    • Erika says:

      Hahaha, I definitely get the grad school thing! I think that sort of cuts into my sense of “consistency!” But I am finally starting to find a way to make it work for me… I think anyway!

      • josie c. says:

        Erika, you are another inspiration to me! I have found that with grad school you have to have SOMETHING for yourself, and blogging makes me so happy so I have been trying to let that be one of the things I do for fun. It’s so hard though! I think you are doing a fabulous job and admire your writing so much. 😉

  24. aaaand this is why you’re a blogging bad a** ; ) you seriously rock. i think i told you when we met how i was drawn to your space bc of it’s consistency and strong sense of branding. so proud of you friend : )

  25. Ha! A 100 followers would be nice! I read all of this and think ‘I’m just not committed enough’ I want a nice looking blog (coming soon!), and I want to write blog posts, and beyond that I’m not really interested (and I wouldn’t have the time!) so I have to settle for the fact that I have 40-something followers even after a year of writing. And that is your point really – if you want/need those followers then you need to do all of things above. You have an amazing looking blog, write inspiring posts and clearly have great interaction with your readers – and it’s all because of the sweat you’ve put into it.

    • I totally understand where you’re coming from! I’ve had other blogs before and I wouldn’t have minded if they had grown and gotten more followers, but I didn’t put a lot of time into them and wrote like two posts a month, so I barely saw any growth. Like all things, I guess it just takes time. I’m excited for your purdy new blog though! That’ll definitely be a boost in the awesome department. 🙂

  26. Lauren Roerick says:

    Thanks for this! Loved your tips. One of the best blogger advice articles I’ve read 🙂

  27. Great tips! I agree with building a brand and not a blog. In the end, too, you never know in what ways it’s going to pay off 🙂

    • Thanks Danielle! And I tooootally agree!! I really didn’t start blogging because I intended to do graphic design or earn money from my blog, but it’s amazing how blogging can pay off in various ways and I know this is just the beginning! I think blogging is like a portal into so much other neat stuff! 🙂

  28. Erika says:

    Honestly — I love reading your advice. This really reminds me of June of this year, when I read your advice for the first time and it’s like a lightbulb went off in me! There’s something about the advice you give and the way you say it which just… feels good! It doesn’t make me anxious or feel like I’m behind, but it’s comforting, gentle, encouraging, and FUN! I think it’s so good that you talk about the amount of WORK that has gone into this blog — that it hasn’t been random or out of nowhere — you have WORKED to get what you have! You really do deserve all of the success and it is totally inspiring! I am so glad that this blog and Bumble and Buzz are manifestations of you following your dream! I love it and it encourages ME to pursue the things I love more! For real! 🙂 I feel like crying tears of happiness for you (okay, now I am getting creepy). ANYWAY! I love watching your journey and getting to be a part of it! ALSO, I have been meaning to say this: I am in LOVE with the recent changes on B+B! I went over to the site the other day and my jaw nearly dropped. I even had to tell Tyler about it! I was so impressed! *SO HAPPY!*

    • That makes me so happy, Erika! I have cooled off on sharing “blog advice” posts because I’ve been re-evaluating how they make people feel and I really don’t want anyone to feel “behind” after reading my tips. But I’m glad that you enjoy them — that makes me smile. 🙂 And thank you for your sweet comments about B+B! It still needs some TLC, but it is definitely more on par with what I’m hoping for. 🙂 So glad you like it!! p.s. It is weird to not text you every day! haha

      • Erika says:

        Haha, I know right? The Daily Text!!! I was thinking about it realized that EH only officially ended like a week ago, but it feels like FOREVER!!! I was going to WhatsApp you though about your mailing address but I also know that you have a lot of stuff going on in these next few days! CRAZY CRAZY! I am excited for you (and for Japan Week) and for hearing about all your new California adventures and settling into your new life! I just didn’t want to overwhelm you with all that’s going on, or at least, add to the overwhelm! 😉

  29. Ruth Johnston says:

    Such a great load of tips, I always just assumed people ‘got lucky’ when it came to followers or pageviews.
    I do panic a bit about you talking about investment though, I like that blogging is something I can dip in and out of and not feel totally obligated to do the whole time (even though actually I wish I could and was)…
    I think I’ll always be in two minds about it, until I take a leap or get noticed…

    • Glad you liked them, Ruth! And I bet there are people who DO get lucky, but I think most of ’em just spent a lot of time on their blogs. 🙂 The investment is definitely something to think about though and I know it’s not for everyone! Blogging is nice in that you don’t really have to invest anything if you don’t want to, huh! 🙂 Best of luck to you, Ruth!

  30. Carly says:

    A great article and some really wonderful tips. My own blogs pay my rent and buy my food – plus more – and I’m lucky for that.

    Two things:

    1) After 3 years doing this and being an affiliate, and being an SEO I know things can change at the drop of a hat. Traffic can be lost from Google’s latest algorithm change. Your best converting advertising partner can suddenly withdraw from the network. (Happened to me twice.) And all of a sudden you’re in a pickle and need to think about the next thing. So my point here is never sit back and think I’ve made it and rest on your laurels. Instead, sit back and think about how you’d make money if you no longer had the traffic, if this happened, if that – and always continually change/expand/grow/adapt!

    2) In reply to this; ” Literally the day after I switched to this new design, my traffic started increasing. … I honestly don’t exactly know why my blog is suddenly getting more attention, but I can’t overlook the fact that my blog’s design changed on the same day everything else started changing.” While I agree the design will have had some GREAT Influence my thinking is that it could be the theme was better for your SEO and perhaps you starting ranking for key phrases? It CAN happen overnight (though not always). It’s easy enough to work out in Google Analytics – where did the boost in traffic come from? Google Organic? Referrals? If it was Google Organic, yep – that’s your SEO. If it wasn’t and you just went viral from referrals (Pinterest, Facebook etc) then SEO and the code you’re changing is certainly something to consider before switching your design next time. The right tweaks can boost rankings, the wrong ones can lose you hell of a lot of traffic.

    Above all, I’ll reiterate – so VERY useful tips here (and stuff I’ve also come across myself, especially the investment part!)

    Carly 🙂

    • Carly says:

      urgh that ALL reads so bad. I really should proof before hitting submit! But hopefully you get the gist 🙂

    • Hey Carly! Thanks for sharing all of that info! I agree that things can definitely change quickly and that you should constantly be evolving and growing your blog! 🙂 I also initially thought your #2 reply was what was going on with my blog, but I scoured my analytics and everything increased gradually — there wasn’t anything out of place or oddly higher. I also don’t use themes, just a design framework that I’ve had since the beginning. I’m not sure exactly what it was, but probably a combination of things.

      Thanks for sharing your story — that’s great that your blog has paid off for you. 🙂

  31. This is the best post I’ve read all week. Thank you. I need this badly.

  32. Beka Johnson says:

    Blog question for you. My blog is small but awesome and growing! Do you have any recommendations for how many followers you should have before sponsoring? Ive e-mailed some friends for them to be my sponsor guinea pigs. They said they would give me feedback on how I do at hosting them. After that I’m thinking about opening advertisement for 8-10 blogs so I can really focus on sponsoring them well. However, I don’t want to jump into too soon and it be an epic fail / loss of money.

  33. Alexandra Violet says:

    I am shocked you have only been at this 9 months. You are such a pro! I would love to know how you educated yourself in blog/graphics design. Do you have a design degree? I have been wanting to get into blog design myself and would LOVE a post on how you got started.

    • You are so sweet, Alexandra! Thank you. 🙂 No, I don’t have a design degree, but graphic design has been a hobby of mine since high school, so it’s been a constant learning process. The way I educated myself was really just from playing with all of the functions in Photoshop. I think it’s the easiest and most fun way to learn. 🙂

  34. Jessica says:

    I’m new to blogging as well, but I haven’t seen near the amount of success you have in such a short time, it’s awesome! I started in July of this year and I’ve struggled with how much money I allow myself to spend on this hobby, but I think you make a great point, none of my other hobbies pay for themselves. I think my next big thing will be to get some professional pictures taken to spice things up! I’m looking forward to following along as you make your venture back to the states 🙂

    • It’s definitely something to consider — how much money to put into your blog. But I’m glad it’s something you’re thinking about. 🙂 I am with you though — I really need to get some professional pics taken to spice things up, too! I think it makes such a big difference when you go to a blog and they have really nice pictures of themselves. 🙂

  35. These are amazing tips! Blogging is so rewarding but it takes a lot of work. And sometimes, it takes some cash. It can be hard to invest in something that isn’t paying out, but the money will come if you truly put in the effort.

  36. Tori says:

    Great advice Melissa! I love the design of your blog and thanks for the tip about Headway. I am going to check it out. 🙂

  37. Dee says:

    I am so impressed at how quickly you grew your blog and that you pay your rent with income from it! Thanks for sharing!

  38. You’re pretty rad and this write up on how you grew The Nectar Collective is awesome. All your hard work is evident in what you have going on around here and I can totally speak to how awesome you are at making that human connection you talk about.

  39. Thank you for this. I’m sure you are an inspiration to many, including myself.
    I love seeing people succeeding with their own business. It makes me believe more in myself too if that makes sense at all…especially when I see people with similar backgrounds making it work.
    Thanks again!

  40. Kadasia ( & Ana) says:

    Wow this was really nice of your to do ! I have a question about you designing blogs; would you ever be interested in just giving one-on-one advice and or tips on the designs of a blog? I run a blog with my best friend and we have been at it for a while but it does seem like as you described in your other post “they vanish into thin air and no one reads them,” so I was wondering about any help that we could get.(:

  41. This is a fantastic post!! I’m *so* happy I stumbled upon your blog. Do you have any tips or resources for someone that is trying to learn more about graphic design and blog design?

    • Christine, check out Lynda.com and ThemeForest.net for starters. I spent months (probably, like, four) scouring ThemeForest to get a grasp on what I liked in a blog layout and what I hated. I also checked out the templates on my iPhone and iPad to make sure I like the way the responsive design worked on them, too. I finally had all these ideas brewing and found the template that I loved. And Lynda.com offers cheap-ish video tutorials on how to use programs like Photoshop, Illustrator, and InDesign. Definitely not an end-all-be-all solution on either front, but hopefully they help you out!

  42. I’m so happy I ran across this, Mel! Like you, I have “blogged” on numerous occasions in the past but only recently decided to get back into it because (1) I missed writing and hearing from people, and (2) a friend of mine (Erika over at All Things E) started to see success on her blog and I could see how much more genuinely happy she was doing it.
    It’s reassuring to hear, too, that you’ve only been at this for less than a year. Makes me think that I can succeed, too 🙂 I stumbled upon your blog from As Always, Kara, and look forward to following along.

  43. Wow! I love this 🙂 You are always a constant inspiration and I always leave your site encouraged and motivated.

  44. As always, so much wisdom, such a generous spirit to share it, and such practical advice. Congrats on your success, friend! I remember the days when there were just 2 or 3 comments per post…and look at you, rocking 90+. I knew then it was only a matter of time before the interwebs caught on to your awesome. As always, the cream rises to the top. Especially when that cream is hardworking, talented, and creates such a welcoming environment as you have. I love this space you’ve created for us! Also, so glad Johanna linked to this post today. I had missed it! http://www.dearlifeweneedtotalk.com/2014/01/backstage-pass-v2.html

  45. Jean says:

    Hi Melyssa! I was blog hopping and stumble upon your blog. I’m glad that I did because I love everything about your blog! 🙂 Also, thanks for sharing this tips on blogging. I find them really helpful! Stay super! <3

  46. This is so bloody helpful, Melyssa, seriously! Probably the best one of these kind of posts I have ever read. Yaayyy new favourite blog!!

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  55. Carola says:

    This is so helpful! I am barely starting on my blog, but I feel like I don’t have a lot to offer since I am not so creative, and I am so busy all the time. Hopefully one day I will get better at all of this.

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  56. Ashley S says:

    This is awesome information! As a newbie to the blog world, I love the tips and tricks from those who have “made it” in the blogging world like yourself. It can feel like a full-time job sometimes, but so worth it for the fulfillment blogging brings!

  57. Emma says:

    What a great and informative blog post! I was wondering…you know the ads that you and some other bloggers have on the side of their blog…how do you go about advertising things like that? I have blogs that I would love to advertise on the side of my blog but im not sure how to go about doing that…? Thanks!

  58. Brilliant tips, so many nuggets of wisdom – thank you so much for sharing with us Mel! It is such an inspiring + positive place you have created here 🙂

  59. Sarah Smith says:

    I was on yearbook staff in high school, too! And blogging really incorporates almost all of those things: photography, writing, advertising. Funny how that worked out for you!

    I’m a newbie blogger in the midst of a rebrand, so this was extremely helpful to know what to change in the future! (The 3 fonts + color palette + consistent shapes formula is so simple, and yet I don’t use it myself on my blog currently! Ack! That’s BRILLIANT knowledge.) Thank you so much for sharing!

  60. You, Melyssa, are the best! I hobby blog (if there is such thing) so the number of visitors doesn’t really matter to me. However, I was always curious why some posts where better received than others and what is it that I am “doing wrong”. Now I know 🙂 And it is all thanks to your wonderful blog. Thank you for all the cleaver comments, tips, texts and knowledge.

  61. The point about investing in your blog really gave me the confidence to go out and get the right tools for the blog I’m launching later this month. With my last blog I made do with free resources, plugins, etc. and invested in premium resources rarely — and I never took that blog to the next level. It was always just a hobby. You’re right that the investment should match the blogger’s commitment to their blog/brand.

    • SO awesome, Abria. I seriously think that’s one of the most important points in this whole article, so I’m glad you took it to heart! 🙂 I think, too, that an important side effect of investing in your blog is that YOU will think more highly of it and will want to deliver your absolute best, too. 🙂 Good luck with your new blog! Sounds awesome already. 🙂

  62. Hi Melyssa – Bloglovin brought me to your blog and I’m glad it did. It’s a lovely, welcoming place. There’s a generosity of spirit that shines out in your responses to comments here.

    Great information too. Thanks for taking the time to write it.

  63. Olya Kryukova says:

    Hi Melyssa, I’ve been stuck on your blog for the whole morning. But in a really good, motivating and fulfilling way. I can read through the lines of this particular post exactly the thoughts I tend to have concerning the blog growth, about expectations and hard work. Honestly, I had sort of blogging breakdown this week, and your writing just brought me back on track. Thanks a lot!

    Oly

    http://www.tlvbirdie.com

  64. Lina says:

    Thank you for those tips! I am just getting started and decided to give myself a month to see how I like it. Because I have been thinking about it for so long. I will try to incorporate some of your tips.
    I really liked you to state that this is subjective. I often forget that and feel overwhelmed by all the rules out there. So thanks for reminding me! 🙂

    http://whatwecandotoday.wordpress.com

  65. Mary Shoppings says:

    Thx for the tips!
    I’m blogging for 2 months now and I really like it! I’m very passionated about my theme and I think that’s the most important ingredient..I’d like to have more feedback from readers and more followers but I give myself time to grow.. I’m impressed that it took you only 9 months..wow!
    I have a question about sponsors : how did you get them interested? I believe that I don’t have enough followers at this point to go to them myself..

  66. Liz Angelene M Verano says:

    I really enjoyed this post. Thanks for sharing.

    I hope you will enjoy this too. Please check it out:http://www.ducttapemarketing.com/blog/2015/02/05/build-a-blog/

  67. Allison Chowdhury says:

    I’m clearly very late in the game for this post, but I just wanted to thank you for all of the wonderful, relevant information. It’s amazing that you’ve had so much success in such a relatively short period of time, and it’s encouraging to see that hard work pays off! Great article!

  68. I decided to start blogging for a number of reasons, but mainly because my husband returned to college and found a passion for writing. I suggested we create blogs to get us both writing actively again (I’m an English teacher and love reading/writing). I didn’t realize how much I loved the whole process! Photography–which I’ve been meaning to learn, design–when I love to play with, and social interactions–talking is a life skill I am all about!

    I really love your point about not holding back. If you love this, like any other hobby, invest in it! I did jump in and get my own page, but am holding back on the templates until I have a better feel for what I’m doing. No rush to figure it out as long as I’m enjoying it!

  69. These tips are incredibly helpful, Melyssa. I’ve been working on launching my blog after months of deliberation, but I’ve finally decided to launch it this week! I’m a little nervous to put it out there (especially because I’m somewhat of a perfectionist) but I know that if I don’t do it now I’ll put it off for who knows how long! I especially loved what you said about keeping your purpose in mind. Even when things get crazy and hectic with the blog I’ll always try to remember that.

  70. Lizzy Hill says:

    These are great tips! Thanks so much for the advice. I am just starting out and reading this post helped me realize I can think big and start now – no matter what my readership. Thanks again 🙂

  71. Anisha says:

    I loved this post. The tips were very true and it sounded like they came from someone with a lot of experience which is always reassuring especially when you’re a new blogger.

  72. Vanessa Du says:

    I love the idea of not to be afraid to invest your blog.
    We spend why more money on other hobbies, photography, knitting, painting, fishing, the all cost a fortune. But, I have never think of it this way. I should start investing!

    meilijourney.blogspot.com

  73. Italian Hurricane says:

    Your blog is amazing, I hope I will be able to do such a good job with mine, too. I started a link up last Thursday, also inspired from yours… I hope you can take a look at it and give me any kind of advice!
    Hugs 🙂

  74. Nvrmore says:

    Thank You very much Melyssa, These tips help a lot especially for a starter like me :D…More Power. God Bless 😀

  75. Anastasiya says:

    This is wonderful, inspiring, and so encouraging. It sounds cheesy, but your passion and love for this is palpable just through this article. Thank you so much for all of these tips, and congratulations on your success :)) <3

    http://princessaanastasiya.com

  76. Windy says:

    Hi Melyssa, I love your blog and tips! I have just started blogging and I am very interested in graphic design but I am a absolute beginner.. is there any good online graphic design course you recommand? Thanks!:)

  77. Evelyn Ratti says:

    Hi Melyssa, just want to say thank you for sharing these amazing tips and tools for bloggers and online entrepreneurs! I just stumbled upon your website and will definitely be back because its such a good resource. Thanks again! 🙂

  78. Jenny Good says:

    I love your blog and these points are so valid and helpful. I especially like the point you made about building a brand. While a blog is usually thought of as words, it’s also a highly visual medium of expression. Even blogs with a clean and minimalist feel make use of visual branding and communication. Great resource for bloggers!

  79. MedSchool Financial says:

    Hi Melyssa, congrats on the success of your online ventures thus far. Thought this was an interesting post and definitely agree on the importance of the “why” you do or pursue activities. If your values can align with the why it helps cultivating that long term vision. Keep up the great work.

  80. Hello Melyssa , I am really in love with your blog posts ! I’ve been wondering about starting a blog when would be the best time to start it ? should i wait on my Instagram to get bigger so I wouldn’t be ranting on my blog to myself ? :3 Thank you !

  81. Hi Melissa! I am extremely new to blogging. I have major major ideas and I am so passionate about writing and style. I need to get out there because I feel like this is my calling! Your blog is extremely informative and I am thankful I came across it. If you have any specific advice for brand new bloggers please let me know! Thanks so much. Morgan x

  82. Toya says:

    Hi Melyssa!

    I am super glad I found your blog! You offer concise, strategic, practical and useful information. I will be reading all your posts!

    I started my blog back in November 2016, after I finally believed that I have lots to offer. I have a groove & schedule going ☺ Plenty of ideas and content I want to put out there ????

    I’ve guest blogged for another blogger for about a year previously and we still have a great relationship. She’s been very helpful. ???? Relationships are important.

    I’m looking forward to building and connecting to an audience; my “tribe” as they say lol. I’m going to enjoy this journey as much as I can and do my best!

    Congrats on your success! You have a new reader here today ????

    P.S. #LoveLatoya❤
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  83. Hippsetters says:

    Hi Melyssa,
    Your website and blog post are so inspiring! Thank you so much for sharing this information 🙂
    We just started a blog/vlog 2 months ago about traveling, so we are still in the start-up phase and working on growing traffic now which we use your methods.
    Thanks and keep up the good work!

    Greets!
    http://www.hippsetters.com

  84. Sarah says:

    Thank you so much for this. I have spent this morning reading a ton of your posts. I have been blogging seriously for almost 3 years as a hobby, but this year had an idea for a new niche and one I hope to expand to earn money from. Your advice is really helpful and I am investing a ton of time and effort to grow my ‘baby’.

  85. I love your post ! I started with one and now I’m on a fifth and all does advises are so good and you make it really easy to beginners to understand!
    Great work Xx

  86. Jaz Partos says:

    Hi Melyssa, thankyou for this post! I spent hours reading tons of your posts. Actually i am little lost because i don’t know where to start since i am new to blogging and it really gave me an idea to grow my blog. more power! 🙂
    This is my baby blog – http://www.jazpartos.com/

  87. yashika sharma says:

    Hi Melyssa,
    Thank you for sharing this useful information with us,I am currently working on increasing organic traffic for my blog posts on my website https://appsdiscover.com , For optimizing content of blog posts I have worked on keyword research and found out relevant keywords for my blog niche.

  88. Debbie Lo says:

    Hello,
    nice tips ok but there are no concrete examples!
    So will you add phrases about which words to use for candidate themselves with a brand? Or which words use writing a post for capture new followers?
    Thanks 🙂

  89. Hannah says:

    Loved reading this article and a few others I found by you. So helpful. We just started http://daytripsanddiapers.com/ and are researching how to help it grow. Thanks for the tips!

  90. Erin Wright says:

    This post was great. Witty yet informational! I read another post of yours about growing your blog and I think I’ve got one more left to cover. As far as your posts do you recommend posting daily or maybe just twice a week?

    I just feel like I am all over the place with my blog, I think making mini groups will go a long way!

    Thanks!

    Best,

    Erin
    http://www.thecurlyroots.com/

  91. Liz Pacini says:

    This was such a great post!!! I started blogging a little over two months ago, and I LOVE it! These tips were super helpful.. I have invested in my website, but I feel like there’s more that I could do to make it more interesting! (i.e. pay for a good Instagram Feed widget) Thanks for sharing this and best of luck! 🙂

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