Your money mindset archetype is in. You are...
*DRUMROLL*
Earth
“The more grounded I am in myself and my desires, the more abundance I create for myself and others.”
YOUR AFFIRMATION:
The simple truth is:
Luckily, that’s exactly what we’re here to talk about!
Heal your money mindset.
Magnetize money and abundance to you.
The stories and beliefs you have about money determine the level of abundance and joy you’re able to attract into your life. The problem? Most of us inherited beliefs about money that are actively holding you at arm’s length from the life you desire.
(a.k.a. The stuff you already have that can help you tap into more abundance)
Your money magnetism strengths:
• HONEST • DOWN-TO-EARTH • DEPENDABLE •
HONEST
DOWN-TO-EARTH
DEPENDABLE
And as an Earth Archetype, you’re in the perfect position to attract abundance like never before.
What if my success creates distance between me and others?”
I’m not ready -- I need more information, coaching, time, and money BEFORE I take action.
What if I try and it doesn’t work?
The dominant stories currently stopping you from creating more money, magic, and meaning in your life are:
This belief trio works together to stop you from taking action and making your big dreams happen.
Cracking your money code is a lot like reprogramming a computer — except we’re rewriting the script that’s been running your life (and your bank account).
Ready to take the first step?
Your quiz results will unravel these 3 sneaky subconscious beliefs so that you can weave something new -- something that reflects the core truth of YOU, not your programming.
Let’s do this! 👇
NOT ON MY WATCH!
…Remember that you probably already have the answers, if only you would listen.
…Decide that money allows you to create more generosity and impact.
…Break up with scarcity so you can allow in more abundance.
IT’S TIME TO...
But first, let’s talk nerdy:
LET’S SAY YOUR MIND IS AN ICEBERG.
You know that saying, “we only use 10% of our brain’s capacity?” — it’s only half true.
Your conscious mind is the very tip of the iceberg poking out of the ocean, while your subconscious mind is everything beneath the surface.
…Which, when it comes to minds and icebergs, is the vast majority.
90% of an iceberg is below the water's surface. 90% of the power of your mindset is subconscious.
Your core beliefs, emotions, triggers, habits, intuition, values, and imagination all reside beneath the surface.
How are those subconscious thoughts formed? Well, generally in the early years of your life. (It’s true -- we are basically all tiny children, just with careers and a larger vocabulary.) And until you take the time to investigate your thoughts, and create deep self awareness and healing...then your subconscious mind is probably running the show behind the scenes.
In every moment, your subconscious is feeding your waking reality with information. It determines if things are “good” or “bad.” It tells you if you should be afraid or confident. Basically, it decides who you are and how you show up in the world.
You might, on a conscious level think to yourself, “There’s no way I’m blocking abundance, bring it on!” But if your subconscious programming (that thing you inherited in childhood -- likely from your family) says, “Money is bad” or “Who are you to ask for more?” Well, guess which one wins. Yep, your subconscious.
Interesting power dynamic, am I right?
That beautiful, complex brain of yours is the real MVP when it comes to making more m-o-n-e-y.
(Hint: This is why it feels so crappy when you get one negative comment out of oodles of positive ones -- that one mean comment is validating the evidence your subconscious was looking for.)
With a little rewiring, it can break through the fears and blocks holding you back — and I’m not just saying that. It’s science!
Neuroplasticity refers to your brain’s near-limitless capacity for change. The more you do or say or feel something — the more ingrained those neural pathways in your brain become. Translation: Change your thoughts. Change your life.
Here’s the thing — your mind is hungry. If you feed it a particular story (i.e. “Making money has to be hard and complicated”), it’ll crave it more. So, you begin to look for evidence as to why that story is true. And since your subconscious is so focused on finding evidence for your limiting stories, it will often miss all the counter-evidence that would actually benefit you.
HERE’S THE GOOD NEWS:
...And watch your life transform 🦋
But replace those disempowering thoughts with more aligned versions…
Trust me – you got this!
Here’s the sitch… Neural pathways are incredibly adaptive. Meaning, once you consciously shift your thoughts and actions, they start to change the very foundation of your old beliefs. Pretty soon, your iceberg is lookin’ a whole lot different.
So, when you run up against one of those limiting money beliefs, view it as an opportunity for growth -- a chance to choose a new story and path.
It’s human to struggle. But it’s superhuman to lean into your struggles and overcome those limiting beliefs once and for all.
Repeat a behavior enough times, and your brain gets hooked. Sound like a sticky situation? It doesn’t have to be.
Here’s the honest reality: Everything you need to know to create a 6- or 7-figure business could fit on one sheet of paper. Business strategy is not as complicated as people make it seem.
The real wildcard when it comes to success is your mindset. If you don’t deal with your limiting beliefs, then breaking through your personal glass ceiling will always prove impossible.
The subconscious mind acts like a recorder, storing information and programming your conscious mind to take that archived data and turn it into the very lens through which you see the world (this includes money, relationships, your own potential, and so much more).
Here’s the real kicker — you’re not just storing all of that feedback in your brain. You also store memories, triggers, traumas, and past experiences in your body. Yeah, you’re kind of like iCloud. And we’re about to hack into you!
If you’re coming up against money blocks, it’s never just because, “This is how the world works” or “Money has to be hard to earn” or “I’m not [fill-in-the-blank] enough to earn more.” It’s always because of past experiences that have weaselled their way into your current worldview, tricking you into thinking they are based in your now-reality.
So how do you let go of the past experiences that imprinted some seriously limiting beliefs on your psyche and activate the power of your imagination to step into more wealth and abundance? Let’s talk.
Your personal path to abundance
“Melyssa, what does the power of my mind have to do with growing my business and cracking my money code?”
One thing you need to know about the subconscious is it’s kinda like your Uncle Harry talking politics at dinner. It has NO FILTER.
Step 01: Awareness
Find the Origin of Your Money Obstacles
Contrary to how it might feel, your money mindset beliefs haven’t existed inside of you forever. They originated at some point as a thought -- often one that was passed down to you from your family.
When negative self-talk begins, you might want to stuff it away. To not look at it. To ignore it. Or worse, to assume it’s true and keep doing what you’re doing. But this doesn’t make it disappear.
Our physical bodies hold on to negative emotions. Even if you’re not consciously thinking about them, they manifest in your habits and behaviors.
Instead of ignoring your limiting beliefs, I want you to bring awareness to them.
Where do you feel those beliefs in your body? Your neck, back, shoulders, or deep in your belly?
Can you breathe into those areas? Can you exhale and let some of the tension go?
Whose voice do your limiting beliefs speak in? Can you remember the first time you heard them?
Do you remember your parents whispering in the background, arguing over what to do with the little bit of money that was leftover after rent and groceries?
Was your grandma always complaining about those people? The well-off… The selfish.
Over time, as your hungry subconscious found “evidence” to prove your limiting thoughts as true, they transformed into beliefs. And once something is a belief for us, it starts to dictate how we live our lives forevermore.
Luckily, just like you can think new thoughts, you can also create new beliefs. Yep, you have the power to change the narrative of your life.
Right now, consider the most powerful limiting beliefs that are preventing you from creating the business and life you most desire. Not sure what your limiting beliefs are?
Once you understand where your money mindset beliefs come from, then you can start to do targeted work to heal and redefine them! Better belief? Better result.
Try answering these questions in a journal:
1. If I go after [goal that matters to you], then I’m afraid that [insert fear that’s holding you back].
2. While growing up, what are the stories I heard and observed from my family about money and success?
Step 02: Alignment
Turn Down the Volume So That You Can Hear
After becoming aware of the money mindset beliefs you have that are limiting your success, it’s time to think of new beliefs and practices that are in alignment with the vision you have for your life and business.
Alignment simply means that you are living in congruence with your truth rather than your old programming.
Instead of making choices based on what you think you should do to get the approval of others, you make decisions based on what actually feels aligned and authentic for you.
Since the dominant money block you’re dealing with is the fear of rejection (that people will think you’re “bad” for asking for more, or that you’ll try and fail), then where are you holding yourself back by dimming your light?
Do you dream up ideas you want to implement in your business, only to procrastinate because you’re afraid of playing bigger?
Do you water down your goals because you’re afraid of what the people in your life would think if you aimed higher?
It’s probably time to turn down the volume on your fears and what everyone else thinks so that you can actually start to hear your own truth. The fear of rejection will only continue to fester (and destroy your results) until you make the brave decision to put yourself out there in a bigger way.
What’s one small way you can put yourself out there in your life and business that you’ve been avoiding? What’s on the other side of your fear of rejection?
If you’ve been telling yourself you could never make money doing what lights you up and feels easy for you, think again.
Once you believe you’re worthy of abundance, you start to notice the ways it already exists in your life (allowing you to create more of it!).
Try answering these questions in a journal:
1. If I was living in alignment with my truth instead of my fear, how would I show up differently inside my business?
2. Look for counter-evidence that disproves your limiting beliefs around money. Write it down.
(For example, if one of your beliefs that’s preventing you from earning more money is, “Other people have something I don’t. I’m not enough.” Then look for evidence as to why that’s not the full truth. Perhaps you recently received an email from someone who loves your work or you created something last month that you felt especially proud of. Where are your beliefs lying to you?)
Let’s Try an Experiment
Let your limiting beliefs well up inside you. Sink into them. Feel them in your body.
Then put on a song that makes you want to boogie. Shake your arms and legs. Let go of the inner critic that thinks you need moves like J.Lo and just let loose.
Tension and fear are stored inside our bodies -- dancing and shaking allow you to physically release it.
But hey, maybe dancing isn’t your thing. In that case, try cardio, running, swimming, yoga, bike-riding, or any other physical activity where you can consciously release the fears and beliefs that are trapped inside of you in a particular moment.
What matters is that you move with unabashed, utter abandon and give your body the chance to release the limiting beliefs holding you back.
Step 03: Action
Create a Vision for What It Is You Consciously Desire
Grab your favorite pen -- it’s time to brainstorm.
No limits, no judgment.
If you released the pressure of anyone else’s expectations, what would you create in your life? Who do you want to be? Get specific. Where would you live? What kind of business would you run? Who would you have on speed dial? How would you feel on a daily basis?
This is your life. And if you’re not 110% on board with where you're steering it, it’s time to grab the wheel and move in a different direction. The #1 thing stopping you from creating wealth beyond your wildest dreams is your propensity to compare yourself to others and minimize your greatness. No more of that.
Pull out your journal and do this instead…
Jot down how your most aligned and authentic self behaves. How does the millionaire version of you act? How do they walk? Who do they surround themselves with? Where do they spend time in their business? Write it all down.
And equally important...how don’t they act? Where don’t they spend time in their business? Who don’t they surround themselves with? Sometimes creating the kind of success we desire isn’t about adding more into our lives, but subtracting the things and people that are holding us back from our aligned vision.
The more specific you are here, the better!
Now’s the part where things get interesting: How will you take action on this vision?
What gets to change about the way you’re showing up in your life? Are you surrounded by a community that causes you to grow or to shrink? Where can you make decisions as the “millionaire version” of yourself instead of the version that’s plagued with limiting fears? What would you do? Who would you be?
Write these affirmations on post-it notes and stick them all over your house, read them aloud, memorize them, and when a limiting belief pops up, replace it with it’s more empowering variation.
Abundance Affirmations Just for You:
“I attract abundance in unexpected ways when I choose to trust myself and my desires.”
“The more abundant I am, the more I can give to others from my overflow.”
“The more I step in the direction of alignment, the less I fear rejection. There’s space for me when I’m showing up authentically.”
Hold up -
Wondering who the mindset + money maven behind this quiz is?...
Implement the steps above consistently and get ready to have your mind and your bank account blown wide open
(in the best ways possible)
Promise yourself to stop holding back. To stop second-guessing your judgment. You owe it to yourself to follow your desires. You’ll be shocked how quickly your life transforms.
No more doubting the gifts you’ve been given. Now is your time to use your imagination to build a palace of possibility. Cast your vision and reel it in. Put your blinders on, take action, and don’t worry about what everybody else is doing.
YOU are the architect of your own abundance. Let your dreams lead the way.
Meet Melyssa Griffin
xoxo,
Melyssa
Educator and coach for online entrepreneurs who want to step out of their limitations and into confidence, wealth, and creativity.
In 5 years, her company has earned nearly $10 million in revenue and has impacted the lives of over 20,000 students in her online courses and coaching programs.
Hey, Melyssa here! Like so many of us, I stumbled upon my own limiting beliefs because I noticed how they were running my life and business behind the scenes. I realized that if I wanted to improve my results, all I needed to do was shift my beliefs and way of being. (And yes, that’s all you need to do, too!)
I’m thrilled you’re here, because it means that together we’re going to grow your business from the inside out.
‘Melyssa, what does that even mean?’
It means I’m going to help you transform your inner world so that you can show up in your business with more confidence, bravery, and trust. (Basically, so that you can get out of your own way and create major results!).
I’ve been where you are -- questioning my limiting beliefs and ready to grow. I get it. My mission is to give you the tools to transform your reality and create real personal and financial freedom starting right now — with your mindset.
Sound good?!
This is just the beginning. Now that you’re in my family, I got you. 🙌
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