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How to Create a Successful Blog Link Up

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How to Create a Successful Blog Link Up

Hey friends! Today we’re talking shop with some tips on creating a successful blog link-up. I started my first weekly blog link up, Weekly Wishes, last June. It’s become something of a defining characteristic for my blog and consistently draws 50-70 other bloggers who link up their own “weekly wishes” posts. I LOVE doing this link-up each week and have met so many amazing women from it. I also host The Creative Collective, a new program on my blog based around the idea of trying new things. We’ve only had one link-up so far, but over 50 bloggers shared their posts. I love doing link-ups because they create such neat, niche communities in the blogging world. Many of the readers I know best, started interacting with my blog by doing Weekly Wishes. Now, they are some of my closest blogging friends. I sometimes get e-mails asking for advice on how to build a successful link-up of your own, so today, I want to share the things I’ve learned about running my link-ups — I hope they help you, too! 🙂

Don’t give up!

My first Weekly Wishes post had five people who linked up. One of them was me. It was not a success right off the bat and it took time to get the word out and get people interested in participating. If you start a link-up and feel like a failure, just give it some time and consider following the other tips I’m about to share. 🙂

Include an intro for each link-up post.

If you visit my Weekly Wishes link-ups, you’ll see a short introduction at the beginning of each post. This introduction briefly explains what Weekly Wishes is and shares the fact that readers can link up their own posts at the bottom. An intro is important, because eventually new people will be visiting your blog and if they can’t immediately decipher what the point of your link-up is, they’re likely to leave, or at least be a bit confused. Keep it simple — just share the purpose of this activity and that visitors can write and link-up their own posts, too.

Create a “button.”

A button is blogland’s way of saying, “an advertisement.” Those little images in my blog’s sidebar — which lead to my sponsors’ sites — are all buttons. You should definitely make one for your link-up. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. Just something (I recommend 250×250 pixels) that says the name of the linkup, your blog name, and maybe an extremely brief (like, 5 words max) description of the link-up, if the point of it is not obvious by its name. Buttons are great, because participants can easily copy and paste the button you made into their own post, thereby giving their own readers an easy way to find your blog and participate. In my Weekly Wishes posts, you’ll notice that I have HTML code underneath my button. Here’s an easy-to-use button code generator, in case HTML makes your skin crawl.

Include community-building “rules.”

For all of my link-ups, I include a rule that instructs participants to leave a comment on the blog that linked up directly before them. I really think that this rule has led to much of the success and value of my link-ups. It gets people to interact with each other, makes them feel good for participating, and gets them to want to come back the next week and do it all again! Many readers have also told me that their Weekly Wishes posts get more comments than any of their other posts during the week. This is because so many participants like to share the comment love and encourage each other — it’s amazing! You can view my Weekly Wishes rules here (I encourage you to use them, by the way!) or you can think of your own community-building rules, if something creative comes to mind! 🙂

Share it with other bloggers.

When you first start your link-up, send an email to your blog friends, explaining what it is and that you’d love for them to participate. When I first started my blog, I didn’t have blog friends. If you don’t know many bloggers yet, then try sending an email to bloggers you want to know. That’s how relationships start, isn’t it? Don’t just spam them, of course, but share your link-up and the fact that you’d love to connect more with them. Personalized emails will get you far, too. 😉

Use photos for your linked up posts, not text links.

When you start a link-up, you have the choice of allowing participants to link up a photo (which links back to their post) or a piece of text that links to their post. Hopefully that makes sense! On my Weekly Wishes posts, you’ll see that I take the photo route. Every person who links up shares a photo for their blog post, so all of the posts are collected into one big, easy-to-navigate collage. To be honest, when I see link-ups that just have text links, I usually don’t participate. There is less incentive to click around and visit other blogs when you’re just staring at a pile of text rather than individualized photos. Allowing participants to share a photo is a great way for everyone to easily scan through the posts and see what they’re all about. Unfortunately, using photos instead of text links costs money. I don’t know of any “link maker service” that doesn’t charge you to do this (text links are free). Luckily, it’s very cheap. I just paid for another year of service with InLinkz and it was only $20. Remember that talk about investing in your blog if you want to grow it? Another perk is that you can share your account with other trusted bloggers and split the costs!

Get creative + include social media!

While doing Weekly Wishes, I noticed that over time, participants would create their own “weekly wishes graphics” to go with their posts. I thought this was so cool, so I introduced a weekly photo theme for my link-up. I announced next week’s theme on my blog and at the end of the week, I chose my favorite photos to feature from the previous week’s linked up posts. Make sense? Basically, I got Weekly Wishes participants to get even more active in my link-up and I rewarded them by sharing their photo (and a link to their blog) on my site! Not only did people tell me that getting their photo featured “made their day,” but it also created a stronger community of committed wishers. Now, I do something similar, but with Instagram. Weekly Wishes participants can Instagram a photo of their goals in action, with the hashtag #WeeklyWishes, and I’ll choose my favorites at the end of the week. See what I did there? I got them involved on Instagram and now we have a hashtag, which people also use on Twitter. These are all small ways that get the word out about your link-up, keep people interested throughout the week, and make people happy. Win-win-win! Be creative! 🙂

Consider rotating co-hosts

I can’t speak a whole lot to this idea, as I’ve never done it, but many blogs have “co-hosts” for their link-ups. This means that each week or month, you will share your link-up on your blog and someone else will share it on their blog too. Having your link-up on a different blog each week is an amazing way to get it out there to tons of different audiences.

Read the linked up posts and leave comments yourself

I used to have a lot of fun with this when I first started doing Weekly Wishes. It helped me meet lots of other bloggers and it kept people coming back because they knew I was grateful and excited for their participation. Now, it’s not possible for me to read and comment on every linked up post, but I do still try to read as many as I can. Especially when you’re first starting out, I think this is such a special addition to any link-up…people want to feel wanted, don’t they?

Define the purpose of your link-up

I think this one is really important for a few reasons. First, if you’re not totally excited about your link-up, then it will become a chore. It is easier to start a link-up than it is to throw one away, especially after people have grown used to participating in it each week. Second, know that some link-ups seem to directly benefit the host. For example, some people force you to follow their blog (and other co-host blogs) if you want to link-up your post. I don’t run my link-ups this way because the purpose of my link-ups is not to get more followers. But you’re allowed to make your own rules — just don’t forget the purpose of why you created your link-up in the first place. If it was to build community on your blog, then forcing participants to follow you may not accomplish that goal. But if it was to get more followers, then perhaps it would make sense to include something like that. It’s your blog, you can do what you want. But I encourage you to think of the purpose of your link-up, and then do whatever accomplishes your purpose.

Lastly, define your own version of “success”

I just gave you a bunch of tips on creating a successful blog link-up, but success is subjective. If you consistently have five people who link up on your blog each week, then I’d say that’s a pretty kick-ass achievement. Creating a successful link-up doesn’t have to mean you have 200 people drop by every week. It just means that you have a consistent group of people who come and share their posts. Don’t get too blinded by the numbers — focus on the value you are giving your readers.

Phew! Now that I’ve successfully written you a novel, I think it’s time for me to scoot! If you have ANY questions, please feel free to leave a comment. You’re also welcome to share any link-ups you host so that we can jump around and visit them all. 🙂 Have a beautiful day, rockstars!

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Jackie of Jade and Oak

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Jackie is one sweet pup, er, I mean blogger. Sorry, I get entranced by her two adorable pugs at all hours of the day. Speaking of link-ups AND pugs, Jackie hosts an awesome link-up called Pets Are People, Too. If you like pugs in clothes, you might need to sit down. She’s also got a neat interior design link up, Design In Your Home! But back to Jackie’s dogs (dogs always run the show, don’t they?) — you must read this open letter from her dog. I promise, Jackie blogs about other things…I’m just a little obsessed. On the subject of “other things,” Jackie has got it all! She has deep, introspective posts like this one and even easy recipes like this one. She even has a neat post about pointe shoes (for ballet). Jackie is a total sweetheart with a variety of interesting, unique posts. Something for everyone. 🙂 Go give her some love!

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Erica of Tiny Toes and Tuk Tuk’s

tiny-toesErica is the kind of woman you’d bring home to ma and pa. She’s currently living abroad with her husband and little girl, building ceramic water filters so that people in Southeast Asia can have access to clean drinking water. How much does she rock, y’all? You can read all about her story right here. For any expats out there, you should definitely check out this one about keeping a positive attitude abroad (it gets rough out there, I know!). And as a Southeast Asia dweller, she’s got plenty of tips for travel, especially in Asia. This post is a great one, with plenty of suggestions on what to see in Bangkok, Thailand. And if you’re just planning to go to Thailand in general, she’s got some great ideas on places to go while you’re there. I’ve been to Thailand twice and her suggestions couldn’t be more spot on! And in case you like adorable children, she’s got one. 🙂 Erica is an all-around awesome woman, go give her a virtual hug for me. 🙂

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  1. Z K says:

    I love this! I’ve always wondered how you grew your Weekly Wishes since I only started participating a few months ago. I love linking every week and who knows! Maybe I’ll come up with another linkup idea. :]

  2. Thanks for this. I started a Do Something New link up and I literally had like 3 people link up. Got to start somewhere!

  3. Janelle D says:

    Thanks for the info! I love getting practical blog advice I can actually use. You may have just convinced me to start one up….

  4. Lisa says:

    Hey Melyssa! I really like how you created your link-up because it’s about building an inspiring community. And I love the tip about including photos links – I’m so visual and it’s much more appealing to me too 🙂

    So I dared to start my own musical discovery link-up this month! I owe you a big THANK YOU – Weekly Wishes was an inspiration and a model for mine 🙂

    It’s called Tuesday Tunes!
    http://aventurasdemariposas.blogspot.com/search/label/Tuesday%20tunes

  5. Lisa K says:

    This post was perfect timing for me, as my friend and I will be starting our own link up the first Monday in February. I’m kind of nervous, but knowing that your link up only started with 5 people gives me hope. Weekly Wishes is still one of my favorite ones to participate in. 🙂

  6. This is super duper helpful! Thank you for sharing. 🙂 Now time to get thinking of a potential link up on my blog, hm……

  7. Guest says:

    Thank you so much for this post! Just this past week I was considering starting a link-up on my blog but was unsure how and where to start. This post is super helpful and inspiring. Thanks so much again!

  8. Thanks for the tips. At the moment I join a few links ups here and there, but jave been considering hosting one for a little while and wasn’t sure where to start…

    Claire xx |somewhere… beyond the sea

  9. Great tips on getting a link-up started, because I can’t even imagine trying my hand at that. Blogging is already a hard thing to get going, but a link-up is like the big mamma! You have done an awesome job since the first days of weekly wishes, WHICH I FONDLY REMEMBER! 🙂 Keep going and I’m all about finding out what you’ve got in the works!

  10. Stacia says:

    This is super helpful! I don’t know if I’ll ever do a link up, but if I do I will definitely be returning to these tips!

  11. Beka Johnson says:

    Thanks for sharing your tips, Melyssa.

    Me and a friend are launching a link-up (Runners Tell All) and I think a lot of this information will be useful. I’ve incorporated some of it but didn’t think about a lot of it.

    Thanks again!

  12. Kate Hall says:

    I have been considering a link up for a little while but honestly feel intimidated that nobody will take part! Thanks for sharing these tips 🙂 I think I will be brainstorming some ideas for February/March and referencing it then. Pinning!

  13. Sonia Nicolson says:

    Hey Mel, this was another nugget of awesome advice and tips for us, thanks!! I’m planning on setting up a linkup on maybe monthly motivation for creativity, hopefully people will come and share their motivation. Once again, another great post…You’re a wee star!!

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  14. What a great post!! I bookmarked how to make your own button area. I had a few things that people suggested I should do link-ups on, but I had such little actually do it that I gave up. I need to try some again though.

  15. stylehonestly says:

    Great tips! I definitely applied them to my upcoming new link up!

  16. great tips! Quick question, while I see how to create the button, how do you create the little box beneath it containing the HTML code?

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  19. Thanks so much for the tips! I’m going to be hosting my first linkup this week and this post has been extremely helpful!

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  20. Fantastic tips & reminders. A link up can be ALOT of work but I have found some of the best bloggers I know by doing them. I actually run one every other Monday called the Monday Mash-Up. We are only in our second cycle [went live this morning], but your post helps me to stay patient while growing our audience!

  21. SD Mom says:

    Thank you so much for this post! It has been so helpful! And saved me a TON of work!

  22. Mrs B says:

    what a fantastic post! Just what I was looking for. Thanks so much, great to know that you’ve been having success with your Link Ups!
    Bx

  23. Veronica says:

    Thanks for sharing, Melyssa! I’m thinking about starting a linkup that prompts people to share an image of a small moment they cherish. The goal would be to practice mindfulness and reflect on happy memories. Think it could work?? xo vm

  24. Deb Runs says:

    I just found your post today when researching how to make a button for my linkup that’s going live on Wednesday. I can’t thank you enough for all of the other valuable information I found on here as well! Thank you!

  25. Reader says:

    Nice post, Its right that we should not give up..its a hard job but you have to get a way out of it. http://www.jobsi.in/2015/06/uksee-admit-card.html

  26. Nicki Lewis says:

    These are great tips. I started a linkup and struggled to get it to take off then my hosting expired and I lost all my post. Pretty much starting over now 🙁 Now I am trying to relaunch my blog with the linkup but wanted it to be better. Am going to use these to help.

    • I hope they help, Nicki! I’m sorry you lost all of your blog content. That stinks! You probably already did this now, but I’d recommend making sure your hosting email address is linked to the email you check most often. That way, you’ll get their email notices about your account expiring.

      • Nicki Lewis says:

        Thanks. Luckily I did find Wayback Archive where I could get some of the content and repost it. I have linked the email now. Not sure how I missed it thought it renewed in September but it was April. Well just taking it as a sign to make it better and do a complete redesign

  27. Miss Food Fairy says:

    Thank you Melyssa for the helpful tips. I came across your website as I was looking into setting up my own linkup party – I’m still deciding on what to do though! You’ve given some great tips & I look forward to giving them a try in the future to drive fellow foodies together in one spot. New fan & follower x

  28. Marie McNary says:

    Hi Melyssa. Thank you for this information! I was wondering if you still host these or if blog link ups are a thing of the past. I noticed your Weekly Wishes post didn’t work anymore. Just wondering if this is still something bloggers are finding successful. Thanks! 🙂

    • Ah, thanks for calling that out! I need to go back to this post and update it. I did phase out my Weekly Wishes post as they didn’t really fit into the direction my blog was headed anymore but I do think they can still be a very effective way to engage with your readers. Good luck my friend and please keep me posted on your progress 🙂

      • Marie McNary says:

        Thanks for the response! I was wondering if they’d be more effective now because they are not as popular – maybe more of a novelty to it? I’m thinking of trying one for an idea I’m working on for Fall. We’ll see how it works out! 🙂

  29. Kelsey Michelle Vaughne says:

    Okay this is going to sound stupid… but I don’t even know what a link-up is.. haha I definitely fell like I can contribute to one or host one after reading the post, butttt I still have no clue what they are

    • Hey Kelsey! Link ups are an opportunity for you to share your work on other blogs, as well as find new ideas as you connect with other bloggers who link up! When you visit a blog on the day of their link party (usually weekly), you’ll most likely see a button inviting you to “link up” and you’ll share your post url as well as some more information about it. I actually haven’t seen anyone host a link up party in awhile so it may not be trending as much as it used to.

      Best of luck to you and please keep me posted on your progress. 🙂

  30. fashionistha says:

    I really do not understand what link-up means? Started out as a blogger a month back.

    • Hi there! Just to recycle the answer I used to answer the same question below:

      “Link ups are an opportunity for you to share your work on other blogs, as well as find new ideas as you connect with other bloggers who link up! When you visit a blog on the day of their link party (usually weekly), you’ll most likely see a button inviting you to “link up” and you’ll share your post url as well as some more information about it. I actually haven’t seen anyone host a link up party in awhile so it may not be trending as much as it used to.”

      I hope that helps and please keep me posted on your progress. 🙂

  31. Katie R Dale says:

    Hi, are logos from other sites acceptable for posting on your blog if you don’t have permission to, instead of photos? I am trying to give my readers a list to other websites and have included the websites’ logos, but is that ok?

    • Hi Katie! I believe this is okay if you are simply referencing the other websites but I’m not a lawyer so I would recommend reaching out to one to confirm or asking the the website owner for permission. Good luck! 🙂

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