
by Paisley Hansen
At one point or another, whether it was at school or at work, we’ve all hit the proverbial wall. It’s the time when stress builds and you feel empty inside. This is often described as “burnout,” where demands feel like they become too much for one person to handle. Many people fall into a slump, losing the motivation to do daily tasks. It can hit pretty much anyone at any time, and when that moment comes, it’s important to know how to bounce back.
1. Identify Burnout
The first step to combating burnout is to recognize when it has happened to you. Do you feel exhausted all the time? Do you get angry easily or withdraw from others? Is your performance at work not as good as it once was? Do you stress over work even when at home? Are you suffering from new health problems? Does everything you do feel like it doesn’t matter? Are you simply not happy? If you answered “yes” to any or all of these questions, you may be burned out.
2. Get Some Sleep
When our minds are constantly thinking about work, and stress begins to overwhelm us, it’s easy to lose sleep. But sleep is one of the most important things you can do to overcome burnout. Many people who are burned out sleep less than six hours a night, which can lead to more problems. Eight hours of sleep is the usual recommendation, so make sure to schedule enough time for it.
3. Learn to Relax
Outside of sleep, find ways to get some much needed relaxation. Find something you enjoy doing outside of work, like a hobby, that you can concentrate on. That in turn keeps your mind actively thinking about things other than work. This can also provide an opportunity for you to slow down and have fun in the middle of a busy life. Exercise is another good option. Working out keeps your body active and helps relax your mind. In case your schedule is full, many health and fitness websites show how to squeeze in a good workout in a short amount of time.
4. Watch What You Eat
Many people often turn to food as a way to cope with unhappiness, which can lead to weight gain and other health problems. Others actually go without food and skip meals because they feel like they don’t have time to eat. This can put added stress on your body. Whatever the problem may be, find the right balanced diet and make sure to eat nutritious foods that also provide a nice energy boost. Superfoods may be the right choice.
5. Go Offline
Those feelings of being overwhelmed can at times be compounded by technology. The internet is now easily accessible from almost anywhere through our smartphones, laptops, and tablets, and that can lead to work and other obligations blending into every aspect of our lives. To combat burnout, try staying off your smartphone or tablet when it’s not necessary. Take a break by disconnecting, even if it’s only for a few hours. Even with all these steps, the causes behind your feelings of burnout may not completely disappear. Understand that recovery takes time, and while you get back on your feet, you’ll have some valuable experience for how to deal with the same problems when they crop up in the future.
Paisley Hansen is a health and fitness writer and enthusiast. Follow her @PaisleyHansen.















Great post Paisley! I definitely suffer burn out from time to time and anxiety in daily life which for me means I find it REALLY hard to relax, but it’s something I’ve been working on. I often have time offline when I’m feeling overwhelmed though get the itch to be back on my laptop and feel productive, it’s a vicious cycle for me.
For sleeping I recommend putting lavender oil on your pillow and having camomile tea before bed – this has seriously helped when I’ve felt stressed and mentally exhausted.
I also took up exercise to get fit and to help better balance everything (and still do exercise regularly) but sometimes I feel that overwhelmed and exhausted that I need to just admit I could use the extra hour in bed and skip and workout – and not feel guilty about it.
Work/life balance is a real learning curve in our early twenties huh?
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Unplugging and getting some sleep are definitely some great recommendations for when your are burned out!
Great post! I think going offline is one of the best problem solvers for almost anything. No one really seems to unplug their technology as much as they should. Stepping out of the technology world could actually be comforting! 🙂
Going offline is such a novel idea, just last night I read a frustrating work related email right before dinner and it set a frustrating tone for the meal. If only I hadn’t checked!
A great post. Learning to relax is a work in progress–but good advice nonetheless!!
Terrific advice. I think the hardest part is admitting when you’re burned out. In this world of super-powered people who seem to be able to do everything, no one wants to stop and say too much really is too much.
This is a fantastic post. I’ve struggled with this in the past and now found this extremely helpful to reflect and remember how to keep myself from getting to that place again. Thank you! x
I needed this. It’s such good advice and I give it to people all the time, but never follow it myself.
Great post!
I feel like learning to relax is so much more easily said than done! I get anxiety just thinking about the amount of relaxing I should be doing!
Identify burnout: Check.
Get some sleep: My wife is pregnant and has hyperemesis gravidarum (HG); our three other children depend on me for dinner, getting ready for bed, etc. I must do housework after getting the kids to bed because dirty dishes, etc. aggravate my wife’s HG. With real inflation (for the shrinking middle-class) anywhere from 6% to 15% (go to MyInflationRate.com to find yours), I must leave for work at 5:30 am and get home at 6:30 pm. So much for sleep.
Learn to relax: This sound’s like advice from someone who means well but really hasn’t a clue about what burnout really is. If I had time to relax, enjoy a hobby, etc., I wouldn’t be reading this post. Besides, I already know how to relax! I just can’t afford to spend the money and time. So now what so I do?
Watch what you eat: Okay…but usually adding “eat healthy” to my list of things to do only increases my stress, and then brings guilt when I can’t get healthy meals together because I’m burned out. Also, anyone who is trying to raise a family on an average income (approx. $50K per year) knows that eating healthy is EXPENSIVE! And then there’s spoilage from uneaten fruits and vegetables, sometimes only two days after they were purchased!
Go offline: Check. Still burned out. Now what?
What I’d like to see is advice for when circumstances inevitably lead to burnout! How do the other 90% of us cope with burnout?! I think the reason nobody offers this kind of real help is because it takes a lot more thought and work, i.e., It’s not just a bunch of trite blather that’s easy to post on a blog.
When those who post this stuff are confronted with real-life issues, like burnout, they often give pointless or even rude suggestions like,
“Um, get a new job?”
“You need to MAKE time for yourself.”
“Why did you have so many kids?! I’d get burned out too! (i.e., you deserve it).
“See a therapist.”
The bottom line is, all of this advice sounds nice, makes sense, and is fine until you REALLY burn out. What then?
Actually, writing this comment has helped quite a bit.
You sure did identify the fact that you are angry. Seeing as the situation isn’t going to change, you have to decide to change your perspective about it. Try to consider why you are chosen to do the things you feel obligated to do. You are more powerful & have more energy than you give yourself credit for.
Thanks for the post. I so enjoy your blog! This is especially welcome this time of year!
Thanks Connie! I agree, the end of the year is always burnout mania. 😉
Burnout is not really the exhaustion that comes with being busy. True burnout is when a long weekend doesn’t replenish your energy stores, where good sleep doesn’t come without some assistance from drugs or natural remedies and where life if totally overwhelming. It’s survival without joy. Have been ther, done that and it’s not fun. I read a great post about planning to have at least one planned joyous moment in each day. For me, that was deliberately taking fifteen minutes every day to leave my desk, walk in the fresh air and just give my self permission to breathe. Sad really that I only had fifteen minutes that really felt like mine in my day to do with what I wanted. I can’t tell you how I looked forward to that fifteen minutes and how it helped me survive. I also gave up booze (sad)
I realized I was burned out when I was finally coming out of it. One of the worst period in my life. Now I can finally say I’m born again. Believe it or not, I did also forget a lot of things that happened in that period. Everyone around me noticed how bad I was feeling, but I didn’t, it was ‘normal’ for me. After almost six months, some words made me cry, and in that exact moment I’ve realized all the things that everybody was seeing apart from me. That looong cry made me easily ‘come back to life’ and day by day I started to feel LIFE running throughout my veins. This is a great and helpful post for those who are in these conditions, wish I read something like this a year ago!
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Really great read. I have experienced burnout earlier this year and took a long hiatus from the internet because of it. Now I am the only designer at work and back to blogging part time, so I am trying very hard to not fall into another burnout and to remember to relax and also have a good time 🙂
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That’s awesome, Rae! Glad to hear you recovered from feeling burned out. 🙂
A few months ago I attended a really good workshop on dealing with burnout and building resilience. It gave me a much deeper understanding of the underlying causes of it and really opened my eyes to how it develops and thoughts that I hadn’t paid that much attention to contribute to it much more than I would have imagined. Just hearing things said out loud and discussing them with others made me understand how important this issue is. I wrote a post about it on my own blog here: http://mylifes-playlist.blogspot.co.uk/2014_06_01_archive.html It might be of interest to those who have comented about how it is a much more complicated issue that doesn’t have simple solutions.
SO awesome, Auste! Thanks for sharing that post, I’m really excited to check it out when I have some free time today. I totally agree that burnout is a complicated issue — thank you for that reminder!
This is a really interesting and useful post. I find that getting into bed half an hour earlier each night just to curl up with a book or listen to some good music or write a bit of my journal really helps, otherwise its just go go go from the minute I open my eyes to the minute I close them! I am also choosing to spend maybe one lunch break a week in the library, it means I am a lot more productive in the afternoon! Its important to have some me time 🙂 xx
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That’s awesome! I think self care and finding time to do things you love are really important factors.
cool! nice tips 🙂
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Glad you like them, Jade! 🙂